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Taking a Different Approach


The holidays can be stressful but bad days happen any time of year, it’s inevitable. You always have the choice to control how you react to them. If you feel like giving up, read this list of questions and solutions to see what might be right for you.

 

 

Are you hydrated?
If not, have a glass of water.

 

Have you eaten in the past three hours?
If not, get some food – something with protein, not just simple carbs. Perhaps some nuts or hummus?

 

Have you showered in the past day?
If not, take a shower right now.

 

Have you stretched your legs in the past day?
If not, do so right now. If you don’t have the energy for a run or a trip to the gym, just walk around the block, then keep walking as long as you please. If the weather is less than desirable, drive to a big box store and go on a brisk walk through the aisles you normally skip.

 

Have you said something nice to someone in the past day?
Do so, whether online or in person. Make it genuine; wait until you see something really wonderful about someone, and tell them about it.

 

Have you moved your body to music in the past day?
If not, jog for the length of an upbeat song, or just dance around the room to a catchy beat.

 

Have you cuddled a living being in the past two days?
If not, do so. Don’t be afraid to ask for hugs from friends or friends’ pets. Most of them will enjoy the cuddles too; you’re not imposing on them.

 

If it’s daytime, are you dressed?
If not, put on clean clothes or clothes that aren’t pajamas. Give yourself permission to wear something special, whether it’s a funny t-shirt or a pretty dress.

 

If it’s nighttime, are you sleepy and fatigued but resisting going to sleep?
Put on pajamas, make yourself cozy in bed with a teddy bear and the sound of falling rain, and close your eyes for fifteen minutes – no electronic screens allowed. If you’re still awake after that, you can get up again; no pressure.

 

Do you feel ineffective?
Pause right now and get something completed, whether it’s responding to an email, loading up the dishwasher, or packing your gym bag for the next trip.

 

Do you feel unattractive?
Take a selfie! Your friends will remind you how great you look!

 

Do you feel paralyzed by indecision?
Give yourself ten minutes to sit back and figure out a game plan for the day. If a particular decision or problem is still being a roadblock, simply set it aside for now, and pick something else that seems doable. Right now the important part is to break through the stasis, even if it means doing something trivial.

 

Have you over-extended yourself lately – physically, emotionally, socially, or intellectually?
That can take a toll that lingers for days. Give yourself a break in that area, whether it’s physical rest, taking time alone, or relaxing with some silly entertainment.

 

Have you waited a week?
Sometimes our perception of life is skewed, and we can’t even tell that we’re not thinking clearly, and there’s no obvious external cause. It happens. Keep yourself going for a full week, whatever it takes, and see if you still feel the same way then.

 

You’ve made it this far, and you will make it though. You’re stronger than you think. Keep it up!